18.104.22.168 Daughters and sons
Sometimes family conflicts may have their origin in the sons / daughters themselves; emotional problems, improper conducts, relationship difficulties, even violence with other kids or adults. Take into account that a good communication is based on the mutual respect, even when there are conflicts or differences. In your case, consult with professionals who help and guide you to lay down patterns to overcome your difficulties.
If we allow problems in the couple to affect our daughters or sons, they can suffer severe damages on their development and education as people. We must solve our problems in the manner they suffer the least.